To Catch & Contain Oneself or How to Repurpose a Cootie Catcher to Meet Your Emotional Needs When Writing the Difficult Narrative

NOTE: If you pen or journal or sketch difficult experiences, this tool might prove a useful method to “contain” yourself once you exit your writing. Of course, you can “catch” yourself anytime you’d like.

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Gather what you need

Paper…Colors…Fave pen…Scissors…A small witness…Stones…Crystals

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Fold paper diagonally, lining up two sides

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Cut the top edge so you are left with a…..

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square

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Fold all corners

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Towards center

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Seek your center

Have you forgotten…

…you have a center?

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Fold your square in half

How many times have you folded in half?

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Fold the corners towards the center

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Keep folding…

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Yes

Sometimes you must repeat yourself

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Fold the square in half

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…and, yes…

you are again repeating

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Slide your pointers and thumbs under the four flaps

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Yes

It resembles an open mouth

Yawn if you must

or

Howl

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Like you, your Catcher lives in layers

First Layer: Label colors

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Second Layer: Label Senses

Yes, you’re a writer

Have you forgotten?

Be specific

Include sensories you love—your musts, your longings

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Divide your Final Layer, your Deepest Layer

Don’t hurt yourself

Use a pen

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Deepest Layer: Label an activity that centers you, grounds you, elevates you

Fill in remaining triangles

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Now play

You only need yourself

Did you forget?

Place your thumbs and pointers back under the flaps

Choose a color from the first layer

Move the flaps in and out and side to side and, in time with the letters, spell out the color

Stop on the last letter

Note the sense

Move the flaps in and out and side to side in time with the letters, spelling the sense (ie, smell)

Stop on the last letter

Note your destination

Catch

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Contain

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Restore a piece of yourself

You might end up taking a bath while listening to cellos surrounded by lavender

You might find your center


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Published by Rebecca Evans: Poet. Essayist. Artist. Warrior.

Rebecca Evans writes the difficult, the heart-full, the guidebooks for survivors. She’s a memoirist, essayist, artist, and poet, infusing her love of empowerment with craft. She teaches high school teens in the Juvie system through journaling, empowerment and visual art. Rebecca is also a military veteran, an avid gardener, and shares space with four Newfoundlands and her sons. She specializes in craft and explorative workshops for those who seek to dive deeper. She co-hosts Radio Boise’s Writer to Writer show on Stray Theater. She's earned two MFAs, one in creative nonfiction, the other in poetry, University of Nevada, Reno at Lake Tahoe. Her poems and essays have appeared in Narratively, The Rumpus, Hypertext Magazine, War, Literature & the Arts, The Limberlost Review, and more. Her books include When There are Nine (an anthology tributed to the life and achievements of Ruth Bader Ginsburg), Tangled in Blood (a memoir-in-verse), Safe Handling (a collection-length poem), and AfterBurn (a flash essay collection, forthcoming in 2026, Moon Tide Press).

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